Should I marry him (army)?

Hi, so my bf is 22 and im 18. He is in the army and I'm going to school. I go to a very good university here in the south. He wants me to marry him this weekend!! I love him i really do and i know he loves me but my heart says yes and i know my parents would kill me if they found out. I've always wanted to be a military wife and also an accountant. I know if i marry him he would be up in NC while i would stay here! It would take a plane ride and everything to see him. I dont know if its all the benefits we would get as a married couple in the army is why i should do this (and cuz i love him) or should i make him wait longer? He's not making me marry him but he really wants to.